Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

How to Transform Anxiety into Action: Adopting Mature Defense Mechanisms

Let's take a fascinating journey through the corridors of our minds, exploring the guardians known as defense mechanisms. Picture these mechanisms as invisible shields, ever so cleverly designed by our psyche to protect us from emotional distress. But not all shields are created equal. They range from the mighty and mature, to the reactive neurotic, and the often whimsical immature. Ready to dive in? 

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

How to Heal Your Inner Child and Other Parts: A Journey Through Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Have you ever felt like there's a mini-conference happening inside your head, with different voices offering their two cents on every decision you make? Well, you're not alone, and there's a fascinating explanation for this internal chatter. It's a concept explored in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz. This therapy approach gives us a unique lens to view our inner world, akin to a family setup, with various members playing distinct roles. Let's break it down in a way that's digestible, even if you're just stepping into the world of psychology.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

Winning Strategies Against Intrusive Thoughts

Intrusive thoughts can be unsettling and often feel like uninvited guests in our minds. These thoughts can range from mildly irritating to intensely distressing, and they are more common than many people realize. Understanding their connection to anxiety and learning strategies to manage them can significantly improve one's mental well-being.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

Understanding Serotonin's Impact on Anxiety

In the realm of mental health, there exists a pervasive stigma that often shadows the real, tangible aspects of psychological conditions, such as anxiety. This stigma can obscure the fact that anxiety isn't merely a byproduct of external stressors or a weakness in character, but can have deep-rooted physiological and genetic components. A prime example of this is the role of serotonin, a key neurotransmitter, in modulating mood and anxiety.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

Why Your Time is More Valuable Than Money

In our fast-paced world, the tug-of-war between time and money is a constant battle. As a therapist specializing in anxiety, I've observed how this struggle impacts mental health. The age-old adage "time is money" might hold some truth in the economic sphere, but when it comes to our well-being and mental health, this equation becomes far more complex.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

How to Distinguish Between Toxic Stress & Hormetic Stress

Hey there! Today, let's dive into the fascinating world of stress – that unwelcome guest that always seems to show up uninvited. But fear not, because understanding stress and how our bodies handle it is the first step towards conquering it.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

Why You Should Set Daily Intentions: A More Practical Approach to New Year's Goals

As we step into the new year, many of us are familiar with the cycle of setting ambitious resolutions only to find ourselves abandoning them by the second week of January. It's a common scenario, and often, the lofty goals we set can feel overwhelming and unattainable. However, there's a more practical and effective approach: setting daily intentions.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

Why New Year's Resolutions Suck

Hey high-achievers! 🌟 Welcome to my corner of the internet, where we're ditching the New Year's resolution frenzy and diving deep into the science of sustainable personal growth. Buckle up as we explore why those resolution binges often fall flat and how embracing small, consistent habits can lead to monumental change.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

Unveiling the Top 5 Defense Mechanisms Your Mind Employs

In the intricate tapestry of psychology, defense mechanisms are the mind's intricate tools designed to shield us from distressing thoughts, emotions, or realities. Picture them as mental strategies, often automatic and unconscious, employed to manage internal conflicts and preserve a sense of psychological well-being.

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Kristen Jacobsen Kristen Jacobsen

Navigating Family Enmeshment & Codependency with a Therapist's Insight

As we approach the holiday season, many of us look forward to cherished traditions, quality time with family, and the warmth of connection. However, for some, the holiday season can illuminate the challenges of family dynamics, particularly when it comes to the intricate web of enmeshment.

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